Here’s how I manifested my dream life and avoided the common pitfalls that so many encounter.
A few years ago, I was broke and in debt, struggling to see any hope for the future. But I made a decision to change my mindset and focus on manifesting the life I truly desired. I remember looking at the sunset over the ocean, realizing I had done it—I had manifested my dream life.
Let me walk you through 15 manifesting mistakes that almost everyone makes, often without realizing it. These mistakes can hold you back from living the life you desire, and I want to help you avoid them.
Manifesting Mistake #1: Not Understanding What Manifesting Truly Is
Manifesting isn’t just about wishing for things to happen. Angelina Lombardo defines manifesting as making everything you want to feel and experience a reality through your thoughts, actions, beliefs, and emotions. If any of these components are missing, like shaky beliefs or lack of action, you might struggle to manifest your desires.
Manifesting Mistake #2: Skipping Gratitude
When I first started, I had very little, but I made it a point to be grateful for even the smallest things—like the clouds in the sky. This daily practice of gratitude shifted my mindset from scarcity to abundance, laying the foundation for everything I manifested later.
Manifesting Mistake #3: Failing to Take Aligned Action
Manifesting isn’t just about visualizing or journaling your desires—you have to take action that aligns with your goals. For instance, when I wanted to move to California, I didn’t just dream about it; I researched costs, looked into potential neighborhoods, and worked on increasing my income to make it happen.
Manifesting Mistake #4: Not Recognizing What You’re Already Manifesting
You’re probably already manifesting small wins without realizing it. I used to celebrate little things like hitting green lights when driving. Noticing and appreciating these small wins helped me build confidence in my manifesting abilities.
Manifesting Mistake #5: Being Vague About Your Desires
The more specific you are, the more likely you are to manifest your desires. For example, my goal wasn’t just to "make a lot of money." I aimed to make $502,402.95 in a year and ended up surpassing that. Specificity brings clarity and focus.
Manifesting Mistake #6: Being Rigid with Timelines
I learned to release my tight grip on timelines. Sometimes, things manifest sooner than expected; other times, they take longer. But I’ve found that trusting in divine timing always works out for the best.
Manifesting Mistake #7: Ignoring Your True Desires
It’s easy to downplay what you really want because it seems too big or unattainable. But when I got honest about my deepest desires and put them out there, they started to manifest. Don’t be afraid to want what you truly want.
Manifesting Mistake #8: Stopping Your Learning Journey
I constantly learn and evolve in my manifesting practice. Whether it’s through books, courses, or videos, I’m always seeking new ways to deepen my understanding and improve my manifesting skills.
Manifesting Mistake #9: Focusing on What You Lack
Instead of obsessing over what you don’t have, shift your focus to what you do have. When I started respecting the little money I had by managing it well, I became a magnet for more abundance.
Manifesting Mistake #10: Ignoring Karma
Whether you call it karma or something else, what you put out into the world matters. I noticed that when I focused on doing good for others, good things came back to me. Your actions and intentions matter in the manifesting process.
Manifesting Mistake #11: Treating Manifesting as a Quick Fix
Manifesting isn’t just about quick wins; it’s a lifestyle. When I embraced manifesting as a daily practice rather than a one-time effort, my life started to change in incredible ways.
Manifesting Mistake #12: Taking It Too Seriously
Manifesting should be fun! I once “manifested” a dog to come up to me at a park, and it happened. Keeping a light, playful attitude around manifesting makes the process enjoyable and effective.
Manifesting Mistake #13: Disrespecting Your Current Abundance
I made it a point to respect and manage the little money I had before I started manifesting more. Treat what you have with respect, whether it’s money, relationships, or opportunities, and you’ll find more coming your way.
Manifesting Mistake #14: Holding On Too Tightly
Be clear about what you want but hold it lightly. My mantra is “This or something better.” This open, relaxed approach allows me to receive what I want—or something even better.
Manifesting Mistake #15: Focusing Only on Yourself
The more I focused on helping others, the more abundance flowed into my life. Whether it’s volunteering, supporting friends, or offering value in my business, giving to others has always led to greater returns for me.
These are the manifesting mistakes I’ve learned to avoid over the years, and I hope they help you on your journey. Remember, manifesting is a practice, a lifestyle, and a way to align with your deepest desires.
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